I absolutely hate that terminology, but it does hold a lot of truth to it.
Tonight I got in to it with one of my best friends about his ex-girlfriend, or girlfriend, or whatever they are at the moment; which probably wouldn't have been so bad, but it was because it was right in front of her.
I won't go into the details of what all was said, but even though there were some bad things said; I still held my tongue on a lot of what I really wanted to say.
But my point being is no matter what you should always choose a friendship first. Everyone when they're single always backs up this fact, but once they are with someone, it completely goes out the window. Agreed that "love" can turn ones mind into mush and it's understandable that you can easily forget the whole "Bros over Hoes" thing. Although when it gets to the point where all your friends hate the person you're with because they know that s/he is treating you badly; you need to wake up.
When you start telling your friends to go home because s/he is coming over and you don't want any confrontations; that's a pretty big hint that you need to rethink some things.
Granted that the next time I'm in a relationship, I too maybe blinded by "love", but I swear it will never get to the point where I tell my friends to go home; never.
Tonight's events have left me shocked and awed; and I never thought that I'd be told to go home by such a good friend; especially because of him siding with his girl.
Eventually she'll turn him against me, I mean c'mon- it's already started.
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