Hello Stranger!

I just thought I'd introduce myself and I'm hoping we can become friends!

You look so familiar to me and I could almost say that you look exactly that some one I use to know for a long time in my life. She was a good friend, but more of a mentor to me. She was also some one I could go to no matter how bad of a mistake I made or even how bad I felt about it. I learned so much from her; manners, life guidance, kindness, and so much more. Not even to mention that she's saved me in more ways than one! I'm not sure where she went though.

But now I have you! Although we rarely talk and awkwardly force small talk here and there; maybe that can some how start in to a friendship. I'm glad you're letting me stay at your place and I'll try to take better care of it than my last. And yes, I'm currently looking for work so I can move out soon because I know how you are wanting to rent out these rooms. Until then I hope that we can get along. You tend to keep to yourself and it's hard for me not to talk to you. You have such a kind stature and I can't help that I want to let you know about the happenings of my day. Yet at the same time, I'm a little nervous about telling you everything too.

All in all I hope that we can eventually become good friends because I miss my old one. She was really the only person I could trust and come to when I needed help.

I wish I could have told her that before she left though ...

"bros before hoes" ↓

I absolutely hate that terminology, but it does hold a lot of truth to it.

Tonight I got in to it with one of my best friends about his ex-girlfriend, or girlfriend, or whatever they are at the moment; which probably wouldn't have been so bad, but it was because it was right in front of her.
I won't go into the details of what all was said, but even though there were some bad things said; I still held my tongue on a lot of what I really wanted to say.

But my point being is no matter what you should always choose a friendship first. Everyone when they're single always backs up this fact, but once they are with someone, it completely goes out the window. Agreed that "love" can turn ones mind into mush and it's understandable that you can easily forget the whole "Bros over Hoes" thing. Although when it gets to the point where all your friends hate the person you're with because they know that s/he is treating you badly; you need to wake up.
When you start telling your friends to go home because s/he is coming over and you don't want any confrontations; that's a pretty big hint that you need to rethink some things.

Granted that the next time I'm in a relationship, I too maybe blinded by "love", but I swear it will never get to the point where I tell my friends to go home; never.
Tonight's events have left me shocked and awed; and I never thought that I'd be told to go home by such a good friend; especially because of him siding with his girl.
Eventually she'll turn him against me, I mean c'mon- it's already started.